Thank you all for your advice. I think that I am just going to try to make our relationship work and stick to the self bondage to satiate my needs. I don't want to give up on our relationship and I will try to make the vanilla lifestyle work. I may or may not try a little bit of that psychology stuf...
I have a set simmilar to these that were originally made to attach resistance bands to for working out. I love using them for my SB. I haven't tried wearing them to work yet but the thought intrigues me and I think that's something I may have to plan on doing. I love the risk of getting caught. GREA...