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Just for a little bit of fun, tell us, what is your safe word and why?

Thought this would be fun just to see what the other members post.

My safe word is and always has been fdsfosioizxzdfssqqeesd!

LOL! Just kidding. I like to use the color system as my safe words. This system has a lot of benefits as it it very easy to use and very easy to remember what each color means. I also like it better than just having one stop word.

Green = GO
Yellow = You are coming close to a limit.
RED = STOP!

MasterScott wrote:My safe word is and always has been fdsfosioizxzdfssqqeesd!

@MasterScott LOL!

I don't have a partner and I am still learning so I don't have a predetermined safe word. I do like the color code though, it seems very easy to remember. My questions is how do you deal with safe words when your submissive is gagged and cannot speak?

Gagged wrote: My questions is how do you deal with safe words when your submissive is gagged and cannot speak?

Great question! I use a rubber bouncy ball. The kind that you get in the quarter vending machines at the grocery store. My submissive will hold the ball in her hand and dropping the ball onto the floor is the equivalent of using a safe word. Many people do something similar, I have seen handkerchiefs that get waived or the stomping of a foot onto the ground. You just need to come up with some sort of signal that your sub can use when they are uncomfortable. As long as you both agree on the signal, anything can be used.